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Monday, February 21, 2011

regret (n.) or (v.)

This picture was taken in Kentucky while I was hanging out with the husband... :)  It's nice to look on as the snow outside continues to come down....
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{As if it's not completely evident already, I'm obsessed with words and their definitions.}

as a noun: a sense of loss, disappointment, dissatisfaction

as a verb: to feel sorrow or remorse for

I was driving today in the beginnings of the randomly nasty snowfall we are experiencing in NE Ohio and our businesses came to my mind... Where would we be if I had stepped in and done my part...? And the word "regret" came through my mind... "Man, I regret not stepping up sooner.. Not helping out more.. Not giving it my all..."  And then, of course, I started applying the regret to other areas of my life.. My wifeliness, my spiritual life, my friendships, etc...

Ok, what am I going to do with this "regret..." Could it be considered regret.. (I think so, but I also want to make sure I'm not being overly dramatic about this...)  I think the lesson for me to learn here is, what am I going to do NOW... Because my past does not equal my future.  Will I decide to move forward and realize that I can grow because of this, or do I remain stagnant and wallow...?

I choose the former...







 "What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee.
 In God I will praise his word, in God I have put my trust; I will not fear what flesh can do unto me."
Psalm 56:3,4

5 comments:

  1. ...are you lost in cyber space too?

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  2. You live in NE OH?! I live in NW PA! I feel like most of the bloggers I come across come from exotic lands like San Francisco and Minneapolis and other places I've never been to. Pretty cool. Also, I enjoy definitions, too! :)

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  3. Awww, thanks Libby!! I hear ya! I don't know of anyone up here in NE Ohio that is into vintage and such things! :o)

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  4. ...lost in bloggerspace...

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  5. You write really well. I enjoyed reading your posts. You have a great blog and I will definitly check back to read more of what you post.

    I wish you all the luck in the world with your blog (although I am sure you don't need it).

    All the best,
    Voe.
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